I am on this site ultimately looking for friendship but I am definitely seeking my soul mate.

It seems hard to find quality people no matter where I look. I won't lie I have run across a few cool catz but they all seem to fade away after a while. I need someone down for me for the long haul (be it friendship or relationship). I am getting the picture that people are afraid of commitment but there is absolutely nothing to be afraid of because commitment comes on so many different levels.

Me: chill, mother, lesbian, femme, sexy, employed, independent... I enjoy everything from Spoken Word to clubbin' to kicking back at the house... My favorite pass time is eating (hands down!). I am a lover of life. Since my last break up I have found myself in so many ways and I am so eager to share me with someone.

You: outgoing (as I am shy), LESBIAN, attractive, sexy, employed, independent stud or femme (as long as you are agressive)... Must enjoy the company of children...

I do have myspace and pics to trade if you respond with yours...